hiding queerness out of shame

hey friends, welcome to the shame diaries! a new series on This Is Not Advice where gabe & i will be exploring all the ways we've learned to chameleon ourselves due to chronic shame. today we'll be talking about shame & sexuality. specifically, how shame has caused us to hide our queerness (even from ourselves). this is a very tender topic for me and i'm grateful for gabe's wisdom and love in this area. we just scratched the surface so expect more on this topic moving forward! sending lots of love!