143. You Couldn't Have Saved The Marriage All On Your Own

If you find yourself stuck in a repetitive cycle of mentally and emotionally questioning what you could have done to "save" your marriage, it's essential to ask yourself: Were you inadvertently seeking to play the role of the savior in the relationship? While it is natural and beneficial to reflect on your past marriage, this introspection can become detrimental if it leads to excessive self-blame and self-criticism due to being overly accountable. On this week's podcast episode, join me as I discuss the burden of assuming the role of a savior in a relationship, three common things that saviors attempt to do to hold the marriage together, and five thought provoking questions that will help you assess your beliefs about how you approach relationships Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn To listen to episode #128 "Are You Loyal To An Extreme?" by clicking here! Follow me on IG - @iamtonyacarter Follow me on Facebook - Tonya Carter Subscribe to my YouTube - Tonya Carter