Gay Grandmas Talk Body Image: When a Mastectomy Redefines Identity

Jaimie welcomes Sarah and Tamara to discuss their journey as queer moms and grandmothers, exploring the complexities of known donor conception, non-biological parenting, and how gender norms influence body image. Sarah shares her personal experience with the BRCA gene and the emotional journey of breast removal, offering diverse perspectives on body identity and self-expression. Together, they emphasize the importance of open conversations about gender and representation. The episode also highlights their documentary, Not Quite That, and its role in sparking meaningful dialogue within the LGBTQIA+ community.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank (use code loveislove), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Sarah and Tamara's pioneering path as a lesbian couple navigating family planning via a known donor showcases the evolving landscape of queer family options.The significance of supportive community networks and chosen family, exemplified by their close-knit relationship with their donor and expanded family.An intricate discussion on gender expression and body image, catalyzed by Sarah's personal experience as a BRCA gene carrier, underscores the wider implications for identity exploration.The podcast emphasizes the critical need for representation and gender-affirming healthcare for non-cis folks within medical and societal contexts.Impactful insights on parenting within a queer context showcase how open communication and love can foster healthy family dynamics, contributing to the overall well-being of children.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Sarah and Tamara are partners and trailblazing parents within the LGBTQIA+ community, having been together for nearly 40 years. Sarah is a business owner and also BRCA2 gene positive, sharing her personal journey through a documentary titled Not Quite That. Tamara is a therapist and together with Sarah, they are proud mothers of three children and have recently become grandmothers, extending their loving family further.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Not Quite That https://notquitethat.ca/California Cryobank (LOVEISLOVE) https://www.cryobank.com/Rainbow Railroad to support mother and daughter, Pari and Pani (https://sponsor-a-case.funraise.org/team/help-a-lesbian-woman-and-her-daughter-to-safety)Hereditary Cancer Resources: United StatesCanada🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you!  ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteThe information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy